Sorry for the bad experience HiromiVenia

I think the issue is that high level people like myself (well I'm more considerate than most it seems) more are more considered with getting tomes for the current relic quest then helping (or giving friendly experience) out new players

it does seem like a lot of new players are getting put in to parties that just want to get there tomes and get out in short amount of time as possible (aka speed running)

the issue is that some of the cut scene are quite long and the general attitude of the high level community is to force you to watch them in the inn (kinda spoils the dungeon doing that)