Tanks can't keep aggro.

[Syzygian]

Threads like this are bullshit, I'm sorry. There's shitty players in every role. A lvl 60 SMN using Titan in Pharos HM. A WHM in Neverreap that spam healed me to the point where I wanted to drop Grit and just start AoEing to drown out the constant Cure spam sound-effect-ringing and see if I could get my HP to drop below 14K. An OT WAR in Defiance in A4N trying to force me to turn Grit back on to keep hate from him (and failing).

Calling out an entire 3rd of the trinity system with no regard for the efforts of the plentiful capable players out there performing their jobs to the maximum comes off as really bitter. You sound like that healer I'd get in the dungeon DF that I'd get no comm from even after getting the group in and out in under 10 minutes, spending half of it with Grit off, flawless CD management, no unnecessary damage, no aggro loss, and nice big pulls for everyone's AoE pleasure.

I respect my healers and while I don't think tanking is the easiest job in the game by a damn sight, I definitely feel that healing is the hardest. But this Grumpy-Gus I-am-healer-hear-me-roar-get-off-my-lawn-scrub-tanks really just proves that said healer does not actually play with any skilled players, and to me casts doubt on the idea that they've been in any truly difficult content where this sort of inter-job-bigotry doesn't really happen.