Or...just go with what's in the current group if you all can clear it anyway. I hate getting excluded just because I'm a PLD or WHM. That's why I rolled NIN since ROG released, and continue to be a NIN, as it gives me the sense of being a lone wolf, as I don't really have to rely on other jobs (ie DRG > BRD, BRD > BLM/SMN, WAR =/= NIN).