Video games don't have to cater to every type of gamer. That's why there's such a huge selection of them. If one doesn't satisfy you, then you can simply go and find another one. Why should the developers attempt to cater to every demographic?
Quoted for truth. Why do you think we have so many thousands of video games out there? Why not try to find the one that's right for you instead of forcing yourself to play one that isn't and asking that they change it to fit you?