
Originally Posted by
Soldowner
Essentially. It's for the greater good, and in a game like this, the hero will never complain about it.
Major DRK spoilers, but this is the crux of my argument.
Enter "Fray," your Shadow, the you who is tired of it and does complain about it at considerable length. Yes, the DRK Soulstone was the catalyst, but all it did was draw out what was already present. Now, your Shadow doesn't explicitly name the Scions as a source of frustration or resentment, but the Quest Log for DRK 45 explicitly states the Warrior of Light is willing to abandon the Scions, the Alliance, and even forsake Hydaelyn Herself to live a peaceful and quiet life, or pursue their own goals instead of just going along with whatever the Scions want them to.
Naturally, the entire point of the DRK 30-50 line is to force the Warrior of Light to accept his / her Shadow - the part(s) of him/herself s/he doesn't like and averts his/her eyes from. It's waaaay more complicated than just bitterness and resentment, but in the interest of trying to keep this somewhat on topic, I'll leave it there unless someone asks for a more detailed explanation.

Originally Posted by
Alisa180
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No harm no foul. I'm just used to people treating me like I'm an enemy because of my generally contrary stance, so I do tend to get hostile quickly and apologize if I came across that way.
Like I said though, in 2.x most people treat you as a weapon or tool. I'm willing to bet a lot of players complained about that, which is why the writers took measures to redress it in 3.0. Aside from the DRK 30-50 line we have Alphinaud learning beneath the title we're a person, Tataru's concern for us is more apparent, and Haurchefant sacrifices himself to save us just because he didn't want to see us get hurt, not because we're Y'shtola's vaunted "beacon of hope," and it's subtle but his death crushed us and then sent us into a tranquil fury that lasted until Thordan's defeat. ... I think.
Jury's still out on Thancred and Shtola, but we'll see what happens when the Warriors of Darkness trounce us. Cuz I get the feelin' they're gonna.

Originally Posted by
Belhi
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From what I've seen, Thancred is the only one who pushes himself too far. The others seem to be aware of their limitations and know when not to push them.
Yes, the Scions are willing to lay down their lives in Eorzea's defense, but that is supposed to be a last measure. Their goal is supposed to be preventing the summoning of primals in the first place, since while their sustenance does eat up aether just summoning one distorts Hydaelyn's aether flow. Time and again they fail to do so, and after learning we possess the Echo and are thus immune to tempering (and also willing and able to fight, unlike Minfilia), have no qualms about throwing us at primal after primal. During the quest to go fight Tidus... err, Titan, Shtola seems more annoyed that the Company of Heroes won't just cough up their information than concerned with your safety. Sure we have a crisis to prevent, but jumping in unprepared will just get us killed... and fighting a primal is something she's likely not done before or since, so she has no room to be frustrated with the Company for actually being concerned about your well-being, survival, and success. Scary how a group of mercs understand what you're going through / going to go through more than your close friends do.
We didn't sign up to be a weapon. We signed up to be a guardian, which includes things beyond slaying phantom gods, yet that's all the Scions ever seem to call on us for. (Well, that and kicking the Garleans' collective asses whenever they act up.)
Now, I fully acknowledge and understand that sending us is the most practical solution. But... that doesn't take our feelings into account, nor does it address the trauma of going toe-to-toe with said phantom gods and staring death in the face nigh-constantly. We aren't machines, yet everyone just assumes we'll have no complaints going into life-or-death situations time and again against foes they dare not step onto the battlefield against (be it for lack of the Echo or sufficient martial prowess). Even if we're the most practical "weapon" to use, that doesn't justify treating us like one... and doing so will lead to repression and/or an eventual breakdown (see the hideybox above). Neither of those are ideal outcomes.
Never mind the fact everyone wants us to do all their daily chores, from harvesting kupo nuts to getting their cat off the roof.