Looking for a new home(server).

[FunkYeahDragons]

Well can't say I recall your avatar; but I've been here since launch and it's great, even greater knowing a Debbie downer like yourself is not with us.

Good for you.

I don't have a problem with small servers. I have a problem with people on small servers who are dissatisfied with the population and, rather than transfer, lie to other players about what they are. The only ones with any business being on a small server are players who like the quiet. Those who don't like what Zalera, Lamia, or any other small server is and think they need new players badly should leave it, not invite more players who'd be unhappy there.

Everyone recommending them when someone asks for a large or active server knows damn well they don't fit.

OP, almost half if not all servers people here listed are for heavy end game raiders. Elitist punks who make you want to leave those servers lol. Hence why Mr Happy keeps jumping from server to server.

Cactuar is a semi end game raiding server. Lot's of grown up's too. Hell my FC, MYSIDIA, http://mysidia.enjin.com/ , has 50 to 150 people on all the time. We have full members too.

OP, this is an example of the attitude to avoid. Lies come from people who've already lost.

I haven't raided past Coil and my guild full of endgame players has been nothing but hilarious and friendly as I look for new content. Join a big one and be happy. The amount of people who are going to give you shit for anything less than joining a clear party to troll is minimal, and even Zalera's raiders aren't above their drama.