Should I be annoyed?

[Tachyon]

I don't really count myself as a lazy NIN/dps. Just that occasionally I forget things (hello goad) or get confused about what the other dps/tank are doing especially in a random pug

...but everything usually works out in the end either way.

[Gamer3427]

No, it just isn't necessary 95% of the time.

I didn't claim it was necessary to use constantly. I was only using it at times when it looked like the BLM might steal aggro, (easy for them to do at certain points, even with good tanks), or during boss fights just to make things easier over all. They were acting as though no NINs ever use them, regardless of the circumstance.....