Should I be annoyed?

[Tizzy_Tormentor]

I am leveling BLM and not a single Bard I have been paired up with has sang Foes Requiem, not a single bloody one, doesn't even impact their DPS, if a Bard sang Foes Requiem for me in a dungeon, I would insta comm them no questions asked.

I do get annoyed when a DPS at 60 can barely manage to push out any DPS, I don't use a parser but I can tell when a player is doing terribly by looking at their hate table or just watching them play, I know they don't have to be top tier raid material in dungeons, but relatively competent would be nice. I mean, I see so many Dragoons using Ring of Thorns without combo-ing it and it drives me up the wall, tool-tips are there to help!

[Tachyon]

I don't really count myself as a lazy NIN/dps. Just that occasionally I forget things (hello goad) or get confused about what the other dps/tank are doing especially in a random pug

...but everything usually works out in the end either way.