Macros that allow us to reduce the amount of Keybinds should not be considered against FFXIV Macro feature policy.
It is still our decision to press the Macro button.

In fact, SE is hypocritical in their "policy" because they gave us the /wait command, which DOES allow for automated actions.

I would gladly give up the /wait command, in exchange for:
1 - Letting Macros queue like normal actions.
I use mouseover macros for healing, for example, and would be nice if I could queue the next cast while the current one is finishing.
2 - Letting me choose simple, harmless conditions for targets (if mouseover target is enemy, cast Aero, but if it's friendly, cast Cure).
None of the above are exploitative nor do they remove choice from the player.