Absolute frustration at not being able to see my own DPS (ps4)

[Odett]

Oh boy...

Enmity = Damage/healing.
If your NIN is consistently below the Bard/MCH/Healers then the problem becomes quite clear, no need for a parser.

No...? N-no? Are you aware the Elusive Jump, Smokescreen, Shadewalker, Shroud of Saints, and Quelling Strikes are ALL skills that play around with your enmity bar. Using an enmity bar to gauge peoples' performances is very misleading for these reasons.

If you can't clear the DPS check, despite being able to perfectly handle all non-DPS check mechanics as a group then the problem is:
-Not enough gear across all your DPS.

False. Meeting the recommended ilv requirement for a fight is enough to clear it as long as you know how to play your job.

Tanks not doing what they can to contribute to overall Damage Dealt (Example, only using the basic enmity combo)
-Healers not contributing when the healing requirement is light.

So, using my previous example here, if three DPS players are doing more than 1k DPS on Faust, but the fourth is doing half of that, and the DPS check is not being met, it's obviously the tanks' and healers' faults. Sure. Ok.

None of those things require a Parser to check.

You have not provided a single accurate explanation to back up your claim other than by showing how grossly misinformed you are.

The very fact that the game has no built in damage meters suggests that the devs intended players to work out for themselves where problems are instead of pointing at a damage meter and screeching "look at him! Look! He's below the magical number threshold, KICK HIM!" despite that failure might have been better attributed to that super amazing DRG doing 1500 DPS but who failed entirely to do the mechanics properly.

Battles like Faust have no mechanics. Try again.

If you hit the Enrage Timer, DPS is the problem. Discuss with your group that somewhere, someone has a DPS problem.

So instead of looking at numbers and seeing who that someone is, you'll just bash your head against the fight 6 more times and keep dying at the same spot due to a failed DPS check, and say "oh, someone isn't putting up the numbers they should, but it's better not to know who it is, even if we have the possibility to do so". Great idea. That does not sound frustrating at all.

Put a meter in there and suddenly every failure ever is going to be attributed whoever has the lowest DPS irrespective of whether an Enrage Timer was hit or not.

That comment is so general, vague, and unsupported that I'm not even going to bother thinking of a way to reply to it.