Leveling up makes me want to quit.

[dinnertime]

Like any MMO ever, or maybe any game ever, grinding is never fun. FATEs, dungeons, leves etc. aren't an exception. Mindlessly doing it makes it less awful.

About the long hour queue times is insane, especially on a server like Balmung and a datacenter such as Aether, with plenty of players in it compared to Primal.

The FATE grind scene on Balmung I'm not really sure about why it's so little like the OP mentioned, for such a big server. Do people really go there just for the RP? Then I'm being silly for being so surprised.

EDIT: On a DPS class, I never get above 30 minute queues on dungeons at all, sometimes it only lasts for about 15 minutes. Leveling Roulette is the same as well.