Any of these should work: http://www.logitech.com/en-us/713 including the wireless. I use a Logitech dual action one now, but I used a wireless one before as well, I just got tired of having to charge it.

I did not have to use any special software to map anything using either Logitech game pad, and I did not have to set anything different in the logitech software either. FFXIV Config tool saw it and I set/mapped all my buttons through FFXIV Config>Gamepad settings.