I have a hard time too, but that is mostly because I am shy, and I live in a different timezone. I, however, don't look for close friendships in the game. To just have someone fun to play with and chat with once in a while is enough for me. It is a social game, after all.

Too bad you make or break your enjoyment of this game on friendships on made. Hope you find what you're looking for in a different game