1) so you want the developers to ignore pretty much the only source of feedback they get on how well people are enjoying updates/content because the "real" players play the game and do not frequent the forums thus they have no voice
2) you don't give any examples as to how "whining" has led to an adverse change/update that the game was better off without
3) you say that the game is great now and is improving, but you say that the developers are caving in to the "whiners" this is implies that you are enjoying changes that are being influenced by forum "whining", so aren't you contradicting yourself here?