A smarter design would be multi choice options..

"do not receive tells"
"do not receive tells from anyone but friends"


"do not receive friend requests"
"do not receive friend requests from anyone besides friends of friends"


This right here stops it 100%.


Alternativly, disabling tells from any1 under level 10 or so helps a lil.


I dont see this friend thing really impacting too much, helps yea, but barely