Not going to lie; when I'm on my PLD, it always feels like I'm there alone. No one really talks to me, no one asks for help, and most of the times, they forget I was ever there when the battle is done. They usually talk about how great the DPS did damage, or how awesome the Healer(s) recovered an almost-losing fight.

I just have the mentality now that I'm just there to assist in ensuring a successful run. Even when another tank is there, I always assume I'll be MT. The last time I was OT was when Titan, Ifrit, and Garuda HM were a thing, and I was OT on Ifrit for Stun spam.

It's funny because, when there's another PLD there with more HP than me, they make me MT because the group believe he has more/better gear than me to be capable of going DPS stance. Other times, if I have more HP, they still make me MT to be able to take more hits than the other guy.