I'm in need of venting and advice. I've decided to finally post about this matter because I'm starting to dislike the general warrior player base, and it shouldn't be this way. But it has come to the point where I've even set a search comment (not that anyone, specially warriors, would read) and lately very close to just quit the dungeon if I'm paired with a warrior.
This is from a healer and summoner point of view and it started back then when HW was fresh and we just got our first 60:
My first quit in HW, you can call it rage-quit, was the Library. I was whm, got paired with a blm, a brd and a warrior. It was the first time I got paired with a war on Deliverance and was curious and excited, I heard all sorts of goodies and how awesome wars were now with this new stance and it also was a refreshing change from all the drk wave. First pull, the very first room with a damselfly and two other mobs I can't recall now (was it even 3 monsters?) and this warrior guy just was almost dead and the dps didn't even engage yet. I thought "shit my gear must be broken", quick check, nope, all good. "Shit, the tank's gear must be broken", maybe. Then the dps engaged and hell was loose. I think, if my memory serves, the blm had two and the brd had the other one, but anyhow, the tank was mobless. My mp were already down to 3k and only Benediction was left. And the mobs weren't even 50% /cry.
So I typed as I could in party "please put defiance on" but no answer and no Defiance. Got this group eventually killed and we went to the next, didn't even have time to stoneskin. Hell goes loose again and I really got stressed out. The blm barely could cast since he was tanking again, and I repeated in party about please putting Defiance on, but nah. So once we kill those, I glue myself to the spot and let the war run ahead and repeat my plea again. He then says "I'm not gonna defiance for 3 mobs". I respond "Ok then", open the DF menu and leave. I knew it was gonna be pointless to make my point come across when he clearly didn't even care so I just left, I didn't fancy running the whole dungeon like this, stresses me out.
I then sought information with my friends on how exactly this stance works. When I told them what just happened my friend who mains warrior laughed and said I just got a very bad tank. That by no means he should have used Deliverance on trash, not just for the healer's sake (since he wouldn't benefit from the extra heal potency from Defiance) but also enmity wise. That was my point, since that guy only tanked until the dps layed hands on the mobs, then it was mostly the blm tanking.
So ever since then, when I got warriors with me, I have to cringe. Most are already harder to heal than any other tank job in my experience, and let me dps very little to nothing, but when they go with this silly (scuse me) stance dancing, I feel the urge to press "leave". I have come across only one or two remarkable warriors in DF (no I don't mean my friend) within maybe um... 100? And I have a friend astro who just loves warriors o_O; (what's wrong with me)
And as mentioned before, this also happens when I go smn. Hate is just everywhere and I either have to go nuts to finish off monsters hitting me or back the heck off and loose all my stacks. And no, I don't Raging Strikes at begining. I don't even Raging Strikes at all for trash, but Quelling sadly is always down when I'm with a Deliverance war.
Now this is the thing: Why? Why do you warriors have the need to stance dance? I get it on bosses, heck I'd expect a pld to be on sword oath and a drk to remove grit, but on trash??? When I see a pld going sword oath on trash it's mostly by mistake, a few seconds and he realizes and everything is fine again. Drk, same thing, but warriors still have a reason apparently to do this and I ask you as a community, why? DPS? Well, if you gonna do that you are making sure that I don't even see Cleric stance shine on my bar so in the end you wanna dps cause I don't dps and ugh....