"This is my playstyle" is a poor argument for being bad.

[Kallera]

snip

Unrealistic expectations do exist in df parties, at least ones where a party member takes an approach that can cause wipes in order to "teach" the party.

And unless more lasting punishments are in store for people that use the df, there will be the fact that df runs are frivolous affairs and not worth hunting someone down over.

[Claire_Pendragon]

a party member takes an approach that can cause wipes in order to "teach" the party.

Though it's no wipe, I do let DPS die all the time as a healer, to get them to stop standing in place the whole fight.

After which, they say we're going to lose the fight, because of how "important" DPS is... only to find out a healer and tank can duo a boss just fine. (and most DPS checks in Lv49 dungeons I know can be beaten without DPS.)