Its hard to learn, it is, I was a shitty bard, I know it, but I got fired up and learned. In the end, it took experienced players to help me learn, now I'm focusing on my alt to make her a NIN/MNK for fun, I know how hard its going to be for me, but its the fun of game, I enjoy it enough to take this risk and all the people saying "git gud" normally need a reality check, you had to learn too, and some people learn differently. You can't seriously hate them that much, sometimes there is no excuse, but other times, you just take it with a grain of salt, and help others. Stop whining, and just lend a hand, if they don't take your advice, then oh well you tried, and maybe you thought someone else something useful.