I just returned to the game after six months away and I've started leveling up my White Mage and Scholar as my main focus to 60, more or less just doing dungeons.

However, I would like to tank as well and leveled up my Paladin and Warrior to 51 to start The Dusk Vigil, etc. Due to the end-game soldiery and poetics my tanks are 120ish geared (fending not dps), but I never really did raids, primals, or hard mode dungeons with them because frankly I didn't know what I was doing. I think I would prefer to focus on the Warrior due to versatility, but I need some guidance with a focus on playing with a controller since I play on a PS4 on the Jenova server.

I expect to tank with Defiance as the end-game DPS stuff isn't an issue now, plus as a healer main I'm already a bit tired of the squishy tank situation I see in the first few dungeons when I'm on my healers, though most of those are Dark Knights leveling like I am. If I should switch to Strength and DPS gear, please convince me why.