I want to begin this thread by saying, flat out, this is not a troll thread. I am honestly floored by how great this community is. I come from other games where you want to interact with as few people as possible.
First, I never played this game before it was A Realm Reborn, but when I heard the revolutionary steps this game took to reinvest itself and redeem itself, I just had to try it and support that kind of ethics in the genre. Whereas most companies are happy to cut their losses and churn out the next money grab, Square Enix really went above and beyond - forsaking short term profits to regain its brand name. Kudos.
That all said, on three occasions, I've tried to play this game. The first time, I got it from a Steam Sale and I quit before level 20 or so. I had rolled a Gladiator and, fresh from WoW, I honestly can say that I quit because A.) The gameplay was so slow - hated the long GCDs and B.) The story, IMHO, was awful - just a series of fetch quests without any sense of immediacy. I went back to WoW after about a week.
Yet, I still kept hearing great things... so I resubbed and tried it again a few months later. This time, I rolled a Conjurer. I enjoyed the Gridania intro story much better than the Ul'dah one and was able to get to level 30/15 and become a White Mage. I will say the slowness problem I had with Gladiator gameplay was lessened by the fact I had spells - it didn't feel needlessly slow. As a Gladiator, I pushed a button, did something instantly, and felt like I was waiting a stupid length of time to do anything else. Casting a 2-2.5 second spell, then immediately casting another just feels better.
That said, after two or so weeks of continuing to do fetch quests and grinding out FATEs solo (it seems after level 30 or so, people become fairly sparse on my server), I was put off from the game once more and quit.
Now that World of Warcraft is in the doldrums and Heavensward was getting positive reception, I came back a third time to give it yet another go. I soldiered through the boring-as-sin story until, finally, things started getting interesting around mid-30s. After the tavern is attacked by the Empire, and Cid gets introduced, for the first time, I sort of *felt* like I was doing more than a series of unengaging snorefest quests.
I've since hit 49, however, I stopped having the urge to play. While the story indeed picked up (still not exactly blowing my socks off, but I admit, I'm interested), I've found that the gameplay of a White Mage is a bit simplistic. While in early-to-mid level, I enjoyed the fact that the group was basically invincible and I could DPS 95% of the time, only dropping out of Cleric stance once in awhile to drop a single cure spell on the tank - at higher level, with higher damage, my gameplay is essentially keep Regen on tank, spam Cure... and the only interesting thing to keep track of is when I get a free Cure 2. After running about 10 dungeons from 45-49 to fill in the EXP gaps to continue the story, I'm kinda ambivalent about healing in this game.
Despite thinking the game's all right, I'm not sure I wanna pick up Heavensward - FFXIV, after 3 attempts, is all right, but it hasn't blown me away. If I'm not sure I wanna pick up Heavensward, no real point in renewing/continuing to play as I'm nearing the end of the main game and my sub runs out tomorrow. $15 for 1-2 more days of gameplay doesn't strike me as logical.
Anyway, long story short - I really want to like this game, but I'm at a loss. My sub runs out today and just don't really see a point in renewing. The story is decent (at least for the last 30% of it), but far from anything special. Of all the Final Fantasy's, this is probably one of the weaker ones. The gameplay is simple, but okay. The community is outstanding, though a bit sparse on my server. In theory, this game should be a hit for me. While I'm mildly invested, I gotta decide if the game's worth another $55 to continue playing (One month Sub + Expansion)... and right now, my feeling is no.
Anyway - what am I missing here? What is it about this game that YOU love?