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    Join Date
    Oct 2015
    Location
    Permanent befuddlement.
    Posts
    5
    Character
    Safka Yo
    World
    Faerie
    Main Class
    Weaver Lv 60
    Thanks for the replies and advice.

    I've found it vital to populate an FC (or whatever name a game gives it) with the like-minded... and that comes from over a decade under my belt across a wide-variety of games. There are excellent players that are not 'into' the social side or interested in 'making friends' - they just want to get stuff done and conquer content... and there's nothing wrong with that.

    But humans are all different and come with their own penchants, fetishes, issues and requirements... and given the in-game restrictions I place upon myself because I want to make sure a very good friend with a sight-issue enjoys the game as much as possible... getting stuff done and conquering content is lower down my list of wants when it comes to an FC. It has to be... because she comes first. As I said, the fit really does HAVE to be right as if it isn't, experience has shown that it can lead to misery, feelings of inadequacy and a general air of utter un-fun-ness.

    But... even as a newcomer, this game and server is batting me around the bonce continually with how awesome it is, so my mini-moan-post has to be put into perspective. I guess I was just trying to make it clear to those that DO spam the FC invite... particularly those that are insistent upon doing so despite being asked to stop... that it's not the only, and usually not the best, approach.
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    Last edited by Safka; 10-19-2015 at 12:34 AM. Reason: THERE'S MORE!!!!!