Quote Originally Posted by _slowpoke_ View Post
Um, no. That's just plain victim blaming, full stop. The blame for harassment lies solely on the people doing the harassment. The end.

You can absolutely criticize people or tell them that they are not pulling their weight. That's not harassment, obviously (and no one ever claimed it is). But if you're gonna be an asshole about it, that's on you, and no one else. There's no justification to harass people, with or without parsers.
This is definitely true in a RL scenario, but you would be surprised as to what some players in this game can define as harassment. I've come across situations where I've told a NIN "Huton is your friend", I've seen it not applied, and say 5 minutes later "you should try to use Huton, it's a huge boost to your DPS" and be told "STFU and worry about yourself"; that player was in no way a victim.