Can I get a clear cut set of rules on which of these does what?

Can dynamis affect aether?

What shapes aether when we use it in magic? The casters will or his emotions via dynamis?

Are the shapes/forms of Primals the result of the worshippers thought? Or their emotions? The 12 are shaped by emotions/dynamis. Apparently 'wolf sidekick', and 'big tits' qualify as emotions now.

I can accept in videogame logic 'a wizard did it'. Hand wave away anything as 'cause aether' or 'cause dynamis.'

BUT EXPLAIN WHICH ONE DOES WHAT PLEASE!