I really hope you reported that monk to a GM. Sending you uninvited tells outside of the instance is definitely harassment. Especially since it wasn't even your fault that the instance was abandoned, or the mechanic failed. I don't understand these people that are so against healer DPS. What are we supposed to do then? Stand there picking our noses while we wait for someone to take damage? Sorry, no.
To those who answered my questions about WARs and Butcher's Block, much appreciated. I will practice rotating Eye > Path or Eye > Eye if I ever come to the point where I'm close to ripping aggro from an MT. My WAR may be 60, but I haven't played it all that much, so I have plenty to learn when it comes to it. :3