So, been awhile since I've had a dungeon run that was actually worth posting about. Man, do I have one tonight.
The bf and I were running Gubal Library NM for MSQ on our alts (him - DRK, me - AST).
We get a DRG and a BRD, who as it turns out, were together. So, hi's at the beginning, normal trash pulls, no issues. We get to the first boss, and the DRG just cannot avoid the bad. His health is dropping like a rock, while I'm trying to dodge, buff and keep everyone healed. He dies right before the first disclosure. The rest of us make it to the other side. I try to raise, but he's too far away. Had to wait for the next one.
While we were fighting, DRG pops up with snarky comment #1.
Blue - BF/Tank
Green - Me
Red - DRG
Yellow - Bard who never said anything beyond hi, and whose play I had no issue with.
Now, I have never, and I mean Never had someone complain about my healing. And only once have I had someone say anything rude to me in DF. I know, lucky right? ;P So yeah, I was angry and upset and got snarky right back.
Back to the story though, cause this was only the beginning. Next disclosure I go ahead and raise him (even though would much rather have left him dead). I don't even have time to heal him before he's dead again (standing in the purple). I give up till swiftcast is back, focusing on keeping the rest of us alive. Once it's back, I raise him again, pay special attention, throwing him an ED and an asp bene (regen). Fortunately boss is low enough now we can finish him off.
Now, could I have kept my mouth shut and just continued? Sure. But somehow I doubt that would have been the end of the trouble. A few words from me and the bf and we continue. Pull the next trash, and the DRG runs off to grab some mobs further ahead. We all leave him to it. He promptly dies. Aaannndd his little monster buddies come running for us. Too much damage at this point = wipe. During all this I tried to kick him, sadly I forgot you couldn't do that in combat. So, once we wiped, tried again. No go. Someone wasn't rolling on loot. Hmmmm.... wonder who that could have been? So we try to vote abandon. Rejected. Meh, whatever. BF takes the penalty and I follow. Hope that DRG had a lovely half hour waiting for a new tank and healer.
Final words on the subject. This kind of player, this is what happens when dps, or anyone else really for that matter, gets carried through content, no one ever telling them what they're doing wrong. They get to cap or close and think they're perfect, and everything is always someone elses fault. And then they proceed to merrily ruin DF runs for the competent portion of the playerbase.