Ugh, same. I went into WoD after an hour and a half wait on Sunday, queued as DRK. I got in and looked at the two other tanks, both PLD with 120 swords/gear. I'm 235 with the Padjali greatsword. But I'm perfectly happy to OT, as WoD does have plenty of OT mechanics.
At the first boss, one of the PLDs runs forward, facepulls the boss, and keeps it facing the raid. First cleave blasts the whole unprepared raid. So I turned on grit, picked it up, pulled it center and turned it away from the raid.
The PLD proceeds to provoke every single time it's off cool down, standing right next to me and spamming RoH in shield oath the whole time. My static/FC co-tank was in there on DPS and said the adds didn't get picked up.
So I let them have the next trash pull but my co-tank tells me at the next boss, "just pull," which I do. During my pull the PLD tries to pull. At this point I'm like, no. And there's no way the other tanks can pull him off me unless I let them. During that boss the PLD stands next to me spamming RoH again in Shield Oath.
One of the other alliance tanks and a dps ends on on the platform with us during the Atomos trash pull, so that alliance was tank less. At Cerberus I tell the other tank to go for it, certain they won't pick up the Wolfsbanes. (I was right; was the only one tanking Wolfsbanes.)
At the final boss I decided to let them go ahead and pull the Cloud of Darkness, pretty sure at that point their healers would let them die so I'd be ready to pick up the boss. And I was right; however, my rando healers weren't any better and I died shortly thereafter. GG.