I have come with yet another tale, and it is World of Darkness.
After doing some chocobo races, I decided to queue for Alliance Roulette thinking it would be over with quickly and the duty got withdrawn three times before eventually it went through, and sure enough World of Darkness.
It started up normal enough, I load in and click Dinural like I usually do since my co-healer is in a cutscene. Whole alliance rushes forward to the first room, and my co-healer doesn't choose a sect until the first room's mobs are already dead and she chooses... Dinural. No big deal, so I swap to Nocturnal and keep going forward. And soon, as our alliances reach the dreaded eyeball, our tank in C rushes forward and pulls. Does he face the boss north? No he does not.
Instead he keeps the boss facing south, which annoys me but the alliances and myself adjust accordingly... but then the tanks start fighting for aggro, particularly alliance's A tank and my alliance C tank and oh boy, people start dropping due to the lasers. I immediately start trying to keep up my shields on everyone, but unfortunately my co-healer isn't healing? Or rather, she keeps dying over and over again and I have to keep raising her. Doom repeatedly makes my co-healer as well as most of the DPS in my alliance eat the floor in typical DRG fashion and my MP keeps dropping fast as I try to balance out my shields, keep C's tank alive (whom also repeatedly dies to doom), as well as get the other alliance healers off the floor as well. The adds spawn and cast their aoe and more people drop since none of the other tanks stunned them nor did we have enough DPS up. Somehow I'm still alive but unfortunately our group didn't have LB3 so we wipe.
Second attempt doesn't go any better. In fact, the same stupidity repeats and our tank keeps pointing it south and fighting for aggro with A's tank. My co-healer really isn't helping at all, not healing the tank while I'm trying to keep up shields and make sure no one is on the floor as well as putting out my card buffs, and of course we wipe since my MP is not unlimited, and the other alliance healers were not on their feet either.
This repeats for FOURTY-FIVE minutes, two vote abandons failing, with my co-healer being mostly useless, not putting out her card buffs nor was she using Aspected Helios as much as she should have been using it, and my resources being spread thin since essentially I was covering for her lack of much input. After the second vote abandon failed since I typed in party chat to her "Insert player name here, can you please use your regens?" And she replied with "I was." Then leaves.
Luckily enough, our tank for C also leaves, with us getting a replacement tank whom had left earlier from the first vote abandon who was apparently a DRG on alliance A.
We wait for a few seconds considering people were leaving the instance but they were quickly replaced, I switched back to Dinural as another AST fills up my former co-healer's place whom picked Nocturnal and once everyone charged in, it went amazingly smoothly. My co-healer was actually contributing this time, and he was using his card buffs, shielding the party while I could cast my regens on the tank and put up regens for the whole party when it was needed. To say that I was relieved was an understatement.
When the whole duty was finished, my co-healer left before I could give him a commend. Really wish I could have done so, he was great and certainly a breath of fresh air after my first co-healer. I did leave with two commendations though, which is nice.
I really need some sleep now, I had hoped this alliance raid would be over with quickly... hoo boy I was wrong.