I convinced a friend of mine to start playing FF14 and yesterday, after she finished the novice hall as a Conjurer, she was ready for her first dungeon. I couldn't accompany her but I watched over her and told her not to worry, as the community is usually very friendly, especially to Newbies. Or so I thought. The dungeons starts and she was the only sprout, watching cutszene, there is a newcomer-bonus, she is on their first class with level 16, but while she was still typing a "Hello" into the chat the PLD immediately dashed off, pulling everything they can pull. Still wondering what's actually going on she tried to follow them, even using the dot on the enemies like I told her to and keeping the tank alive for a while until the last big room before the last boss (the one with all the pirates) where she panicked and they wiped - with the tank immediately lashing out at her, faster then they dashed through the dungeon.
I mean, I get it. It's Sastasha. It's boring for experienced player so you wanna do it fast and move on. But there is this new player on her first class, joining in her first dungeon ever in this game, without much of a plan what's going one. Is it too much to ask to consider this for a bit and maybe not masspulling everything straight to the exit? And then even criticising her for not being able to keep up with your speed-run?
Obviously. Because after I asked her if she wants to continue, she soldiered on and a little bit later she entered the very next dungeon, Tam-Tara, where exactly the same thing happend again. Well, the results afterwards where clear with her conclusion: "Well, this game looks fun and I enjoyed it quit a bit, but I don't ever want to go into any more dungeons, thank you very much."
I offered to take her along with me and my friends in the future so she can actually enjoy the game some more, but I guess I was lucky when I did my first dungeons as the party was way more nicer and took it slow. I don't know if I would have continued with the game if I had received the same treatment either.









