I died a little inside just reading this.
I was not very nice to him. I even called him out for trying to kick the WAR, but enough votes passed to dismiss him (and then half the party left so I’m sure they kicked him just to get out of the penalty for leaving). When he showed up in my second instance of it, I noticed he didn’t try to start anything, so maybe he didn’t appreciate me railing into him in front of a bunch people last time and knew I’d do it again.
I don’t think it’s the greatest idea to do ARR or HW EX primals synced these days, but I can see why some people wouldn’t know to go to PF. It’s not like the game tells you the content isn’t like the “hard modes”. But you have someone trying to learn and you just deny him the opportunity to do so? I felt so bad for that WAR... It’s just uncalled for to treat someone that way. Because I think he knew how to tank. He just didn’t tanks when he was supposed to swap. And that’s no fault of his — I was trying to explain it, but the PLD was too busy facepulling to allow for it.