Yeah, no, I never attempted to talk to that healer in the story outside of the dungeon nor would I ever do that. That would be harassment to hunt her down over that and I would never do something like that. She wasn't on my server nor would I have attempted to even if she was. All I did was open my Contacts window and blacklist her after the run and the DPS who told me to "drop it" so that I can avoid playing with people like that.
She didn't want my help so I gave up after trying to explain twice that I was trying to be nice and help her and not trying to be mean about it. Gave up, struggled to finish dungeon, and left. Never spoke with her again nor will I ever.
Thanks for clarifying! I now understand the misunderstanding we had