Hey, weren't you the guy that laughed at me for saying that non-raiders can be toxic too?

I'd suggest you to stop being so antagonistic. You're proving my point.
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Story:
So, the other day I was leveling SAM and queued up for The Qitana Ravel with a FC buddy deeps. We zone in and get a returner healer and a DRK. A little birdie told me that their DPS was super low for this level so I checked his gear. That's it: An ilvl 290 weapon. The sword you get from your chest upon completing your DRK quest... in Stormblood. So I literally told him "Hey, xxx, I suggest you to change your weapon, it's quite outdated for this content", then he replies to me "I mean... yeah?". If you know this... then... do it? Heck, he can even get a vendor weapon and it will be automatically better than what he's using.
I don't get these people.