You shouldn't be annoyed, like I may make the big pull and plan to use Hallowed Ground as part of the early cooldown rotation if I know the healer is going for big dps to allow my HP to drop as low as needed so they don't have to frantically recover. So that is actually a good sign, compared to a tank that just saves these only for an emergencies, versus using it early where you can get to use maybe 2-3x in a dungeon setting.
Like Neverreap. Make the entire island pull, plan to use HG if the DPS is good with everyone and healer. It'll be back up for the bees section, if needed for final sting. Now tell me who doesn't want a tank that uses their cooldowns to their best potential?