Back in ffxi when I was a whm I literally only healed in parties. Nowadays though I've been able to adapt to dpsing alittle in ff14. The thing about 14 is as a whm we get cleric stance, which switches out int and mnd around. Ever since I linked my cleric stance to hotkey 1 on my keybord it made a world of difference. Now very ez to just hit 1 to switch between healing and dpsing. So I now dps even more.