I'm definitely not scared off the game by the posts, and I appreciate the fact that there's differing opinions. However, I'm not level 60 yet, I'm not raiding, but maybe by that time maybe I'll be more comfortable.

A post mentioned before about switching into CS and selecting targets on the PS3, which I personally am finding extremely tedious, so maybe when my laptop is fixed and ready to go I'll be able to.

I've never played a game where a healer DPS'd aside from a Disc Priest in WoW, but even atonement healing (Where you DPS and the skill triggers a heal) was considered lazy and that character was expected to use their actual heals. I'm not really sure where that statement about never playing a game where a healer didn't DPS came from, and I'm not knocking that comment, I've just never experienced that. Aside from, again, classes with a separate "leave it" mechanic or a damage heal. Then again, I wasn't a hardcore raider so maybe it was the case in upper difficulties.