Quote Originally Posted by Gamer3427 View Post
Simple fact of the matter is that while there are plenty of good people out there in FFXIV, most of them are going in with groups of friends rather than relying purely on DF groups.
This, more or less. It's even worse if you're going into DF as a healer or tank, because anything that kinda sorts goes somewhat wrong is automatically your fault.

I visited Brynhildr when trying to decide what server to transfer to. They seemed like nice enough people, and I even got a tell from someone asking me to let them know if I did decide to transfer there. Try making friends on the server or inviting your friends into the game rather than relying on the duty finder. You never know what type of person you'll get in the duty finder, but it's notorious for being a dreadful place for newcomers.

If you do decide to transfer, Adamantoise is a really nice place. I transferred there from a smaller server and have no regrets. Immediately saw random server-wide RP events, received expensive items for free during the Moonfaire Event, and many people gathered to honor a player that died on the server. I'm not going to lie and say that it's perfect. but I've made a point of putting all my new characters there.