Here's a few things to consider.
  • Not everyone is a hard core player who needs to know these things.
  • Not everyone is mature enough to use them "nicely".
  • FFXIV is a game; we play these for fun, not to wangst over our damage output like it is the end of the world.
  • SE doesn't endorse them for a reason!
  • Why not do the easiest thing and check the Battle Chat-Log if you want to know what damage was done by who?

TLR I'm a PS4 player and I don't want a parser involved in my gaming.