So we wiped two times, I said "last try" and the tank ran in as soon as he had Protect. He didn't wait for me summoning my fairy either (I used my Swiftcast which I wanted to save for the next dead DD, I had experience with this group by now).
Suffice to say, of course we wiped again, because even the toughest Lala Paladin can't stand and take a 100 Tonze Swing.

I said goodbye and left.

Now I'm sitting here with a 30 min penalty. Kept the pretty bad team alive during the instance up to boss number two, wiped 3 times with them, wasted one buff food and 45 minutes, so why do SE need to penalize me further?

The game should check how many wipes happen and if mechanics are to blame, then waiver the penalty when you leave after 3 tries.

End of rant.