Gilgamesh is considered the secondary RP hud, though its community is more tightly wound and balanced between gameplay progression and RP, whereas Balmung favors the latter notably. Unfortunately, it is next to impossible to create a character in. So you would have to pay for a transfer should you ever wish to switch servers (Definitely worthwhile if you’re into heavy RP). That said, Gilgamesh is a good server to get your feet wet if you don’t want to pay quite yet.

I would stick with the free trial a while longer if you’re still hesitant about the game. Personally, it grew on me quickly. But since there’s no refund, it’s a good idea to keep with it just to get your feet wet. If you do opt to pay the game, it comes with the first month paid. Unlike the trial version, this is the whole game. I also suggest posting in the recruit-a-friend thread (or I can just toss you a code here), if you do buy the game. It gives you a bonus item that makes early leveling a breeze. ^^