This thread has made me think about playing on my PLD character again. I stopped playing him because it seemed like I was running into so many jerks who would berate me for not speed running. I simply can't due to severe arthritis, so smaller pulls is my style.
Had one healer [wearing law and ESO and 200 weapon, while I was just in i140ish white HQ and questing greens with a 133 HQ weapon] who told me unless I mass pulled she wouldn't heal me, at which point I said 'Fine by me, but if you get aggro don't expect me to pull it off you now that you've drawn that line in the sand.'
She was dying within 30 seconds because She pulled a ton of mobs while I was working on the 5 or so I'd already pulled. The two dps pretty much cracked up laughing.