The first thing I noticed is that I find the tank is de facto leader, and that's not something a lot of people who play the game might want to get into because of their own feelings when it comes to said role(leadership). My own experience as a healer/dps is that the good tanks I've played with definitely seem to have a more commanding approach when it comes to the party dynamic. They tend to bark out orders on just about everything, but for the most part it usually goes well if everyone abides by their ideas/suggestions/orders. I admit I like to let people play how they want to play and usually try to accommodate to the best of my ability so that it still goes well, (naturally that makes me more suited for healing.) but as a tank, I see there is a reason why so many of us have to kind of shepard the party, I mean I guess its the trade off for you know getting beat up for everyone. lol