Quote Originally Posted by AeraLure View Post
This is why I have yet to tank or even DPS. I want to, but Duty Finder is brutal to new players. ... I've played my DKR to 39 and love it, my GLA to 26 (yes, in fates, because take them into dungeons? seriously?! with topics like these?) but I'm very likely never going to actually use them. >.< A bit sad too because I maybe know them a little better than some, having spent most of my time watching tanks as a healer. It's just not worth the grief I expect to get even trying to change jobs at this point.
That is sad. Tanking is fun. You shouldn't let a few bad apples deter you from playing the jobs you want to play. I personally believe that these types of topics you see in the forums are the exceptions and not the norm. If anything, you are more likely to meet indifference from PUGs. Its just that the PUGs that annoy you are often the most memorable.

I feel that a healing job is *WAY* more complicated and stressful than Tank or DPS jobs. Specially if you are dealing with players that don't even bother to use their cool downs or dodge aoe. If you can deal with that, and you probably have, then any tank or dps job should come easy to you.