I am actually kind of astounded this is an issue. People do that sort of thing? All of my clears have been either with my FC or in the DF, except for Thornmarch. I kept checking for Whisker farm parties, and when one started, I sent a tell to the leader asking if I could come heal it, even though I'd never cleared. Because I knew it would be a strain on people to go in completely blind, I watched a few How-To videos on Youtube, and at least had a working understanding of the fight. The guy asked his party, the party agreed, I joined up. First round took 11 minutes to clear, because I missed the Moogle-Go-Round debuffs once, and I was too close to the Moogle that taunts into the pool of death the second time. I apologized, they were fine with it.
We cleared, and proceeded to have <3 minute clears for the next 30-45 minutes. Two other people got whiskers ( I got outrolled on a 94 shdafiuahsf ).
I cannot fathom someone being so rude as to not take the other seven people into account. The Party Finder is there to accomplish SPECIFIC goals. If you want a clear, earn it. As someone who is a fresh 60, I absolutely support this.
First time I did the EX Ifrit / Garuda / Titan I did it in PF, and I apparently accidentally marked it as a farm party. So I offered to run it as a farm instead of clearing the three, because that was my mistake. They were good sports, and cleared the other two with me. ( Ifrit is a bitch and a half on EX. D= Even unsync'd )
An MMO is a community, and it is up to all of us to treat each other with respect. This isn't an 'elitist' or 'selfish' request - it's one that's coming on the cusp of someone who's been disrespected repeatedly. A farm party has a specific goal. Only join if you're willing to contribute to that goal, not your own. To the people who say that this is selfish, or that clear parties will evaporate...
The DF will never go away. Sure, it might be more difficult, but who said everything has to be easy?