Melding is not that much of a problem, only the mainhand tools and chest pieces require expensive overmelds. HQ Gloves, Boots, Pants and Hat are only 5 control lower than the ilvl 180 counter parts so you dont even need overmelds or expensive materia to beat them. Crafting those parts and buying tools/chests with red scrips might be a good idea, at least for people who gather. If you have to buy all the mats it might be too expensive :/