Yeah, I am 100% terrible at figuring things out on my own (I really appreciate all the comments put to this thread and the various videos on clearing content for that reason).
1. Early BotD was to have it up for the first combo on Hummel. If I use it before CT, then it gets pushed back a set later.
2. B4B was an attempt to boost DPS, from comparing parses and seeing other DRGs using it on the Fausts. SSD gap close was because previously I was using elusive to get away (died once from the drop when I ran instead of elusived, and somehow in my mind it became "died about 5 times trying to run away and I keep wiping us and oh god I am the worst." I ran this time without death so I'll try to elusive back instead).
3. The BLM/BRD mentioned that they feel they have to blow CDs to burst the Fausts, or else Hummel drops before they're dead. The time I accidentally put all my buffs on the Fausts, we only cleared due to DoTs/a final F3 proc. We all died to Panzercheck, so I do think I need to hold BL for that (but will make sure to stack it with other buffs instead). That was the 1633 parse, and I feel awful that I almost wiped us, so I don't want to repeat what I did there.
4. DFD/double weaving on a Jump were mistakes that run. I've been trying to DFD once I have Dis on both, and I have no clue why I decided to do that double weave. It's not typical for me.
5. I don't like spending gil, and don't have as much time as I'd like for grinding, so I've decided to wait to meld any Grade V materia for 240 pieces, and I do not want to deal with melding crafted gear. Current set is here: http://ffxiv.ariyala.com/U0OE
Should I avoid Pthleb on both, or just not use it on the one that dies the quickest? Overall clearing the content is the most important to me, but I feel like I'm being a crap DPS when my percentile is 20~30% and everyone else is pushing 60~80%.. so I don't want to put us in danger pushing my own, but clearly there are ways I can improve. With how things are going so far, I'm tempted to just say F it and buy full lore.. really will consider it if we aren't clearing by 3.3. Might be my only way to 240. :/
Thanks for taking a look - I'll see how things go this upcoming week.