What would make you feel connected to your character?

[Kallera]

If I had a choice that physically represented me.

So far none do. Elvaan did in XI, but in XIV the females are now dainty flowers and not buff muscular amazonian momma bears.

I'm honestly curious, are you a buff muscular amazionian momma bear?

This is probably not the game's fault, but I start feeling detached when there no chatter going on.