Which brings me back to my earlier point, why do I want this underperforming person who is unwilling to take constructive criticism in my group in the first place? Should I be forced to accept the person who basically says screw you to 3 other people just because there were only a couple people online at the time in my FC?Right, and with personal parsers with optional sharing, you see immediately who wants to hide their DPS so you get a better idea of how receptive they are to criticism. Sounds like a benefit to personal parsers with optional sharing, to me. You get a better idea of whether the person will be willing to listen to criticism or if they'll just ignore what you say anyways.
And then circles around to the question I have presented you and you have avoided multiple times, at this point who is more selfish? The one person giving the proverbial finger to 3-7 other players or the group that doesn't want to deal with that person, I still don't know how you can stand by your stance of 1 person wasting 3 peoples time is less selfish then 3 people not wanting to deal with that a-hole in the first place, who is the bigger jerk at this point? The 3 people who agree that this person is just wasting their time or the 1 person being a jerk?
You are fully admitting that these people have no desire to improve, which means that not only are they wasting that particular groups time but the time of numerous groups in the future, again what is more selfish?Shows lack of desire to improve because they're potentially embarrassed over their numbers. Saves you time trying to help someone get better when they don't want it.