The Real Problem with Parsers

[Gorlioliolio]

So, again, what objective benefits are there to a party parser over a personal one with optional sharing?

Other people can't help you if they can't tell what you are doing wrong, and some people are unwilling to help themselves.

Oh hey look I quoted myself on that one, the people who are unwilling to help themselves are the ones who turn off their parses. If you are that bad (unless terribly undergeared, which no one should really punish someone for as we have all been there) then I don't want you in my group because you are wasting 4 peoples time (once again your wasting your own time too)

If somebody refuses to share, it suggests that they recognize that they may have issues but will refuse to take your help into consideration because they won't help you help them. That saves you time talking to a wall. And, I mean, if three out of four DPS share and they're all fine, and the fourth refuses to share, it's a pretty safe bet where the problem lies. If they're capable of recognizing that they're underperforming and that they're embarrassed to share because of that, then a stranger telling them they're bad isn't going to do anything more helpful.

I'm unsure if you are going against your own stance here where you seem to be vehemently against kicking people for poor dps. Or are you just saying the group should vote abandon at that point and waste 8 peoples time instead of kicking the 1 person?

Basically if we all know the one persons poor dps is causing problems then what good does being able to hide your dps serve?