I have played many MMO's over the years (many more than I care to recount) and as much as I love it FFXIV has made me start to dislike it. If you solidly heal you get complained at for not doing any DPS. If you do DPS you either get in trouble for allowing people's health to drop lower than they would like (even if they don't die) or for not reaching certain DPS levels. When Tanking I just leave the healer to it, I don't understand why people feel that pressuring is a good idea.

I wonder if anyone has had a problem in which you don't DPS, as the Tank feels they don't need to dodge attacks, but then complains at you and possible even getting kicked??