when a tank forget his CDs, or plain ignore them rather then forget, I ask after a pull of a 9999999999999999 mobs if he could do something to lower the damage intake. The asnwers I receive are just baffling, it ranges from...*you are there to heal, do your job*, *I dont have CDs to lower damage*, *I use them only if I must* and * you are a bad healer, if you were a good healer I shouldnt need to use CDs*, rarely an answer I got from nice people * I will see what I can do* this last answer is the difference between a wipe and a clear often.

I stopped loooonngg ago worrying about these things, especially when they are warned that I am wellll undergeared and proceed to pulll not one room but two, yep...even that