The truth about the community of the game and the forums.

[Yunona]

Done, I want this thread gone, I tried and worded it terribly. It wont let me delete this thread I created.

[Yunona]

So opinions are wrong? In debates you are allowed to have opinions, I won't tell anyone they can't. I understand what you mean but please understand this is a good breather for people to really discuss exactly what it is, or at least point it out.

[Eye_Gore]

I simply want to discuss about improving the forum community.

Thats kind of like asking the sun not to rise in the morning.

[Yunona]

I am not trying to start a fight, or be rude or anything but simply letting people voice themselves somewhere other than derailing a thread that has nothing to do with them. Is that so bad? I am not trying to be stubborn.

[Ashkendor]

I honestly think that people sling around the word 'toxic' way too much. Most of what I see posted here doesn't even remotely qualify as toxic. Some of it is snarky, some of it isn't very constructive, but I think that many people don't really have any idea just how awful a forum can actually get. Overall, this forum is very tame.

[Yunona]

I read what you said, but fine, why is the forum seem to be slightly aggressive, am I not allowed to use the forum to try to discuss something? Should I delete this because the idea is not agreed with?

[dekal]

I have met good and bad people no just in here, but in game too. It is natural to find people that we won't like or vice versa. Just because it is the internet, it doesn't mean that the people on the internet are from another dimension.

[Yunona]

I have met good and bad people no just in here, but in game too. It is natural to find people that we won't like or vice versa. Just because it is the internet, it doesn't mean that the people on the internet are from another dimension.

At no point did I say they were, this is already becoming a lost cause, I wanted to help people understand eachother, I don't mind your criticism. I am looking to find common ground.

[dekal]

At no point did I say they were, this is already becoming a lost cause, I wanted to help people understand eachother, I don't mind your criticism. I am looking to find common ground.

You said "...I really didn't want to do anything, people I meet in game are normally for the most part nice(: I love it, made many friends just through dungeons, but... the forum, is so toxic, not because of whatever..." I am just clarifying and adding that in the game there are people that will be "toxic", too. I met great people thru the forums and I am friends with them in game if we got lucky enough to be in the same server otherwise we just use 1-2 threads to keep in touch.

Those are the same people that you will find in game. Who said that may be you are talking to someone in game that is cool and nice with you and your group, but come to the forums and others will find him/her toxic / I met people that don't even use their own square enix account to make threads/posts on the forums/.

You say you want to find a common ground, to understand each other. That is kind of impossible. you will find that we will understand just a part of what you say while others will agree 100% and another group that disagree with you completely.

I agree with you that there're people we all consider bad / good people according to our morals and standards. I agree with you, but you want to try to say you want love and peace 100% with every single person that is just not possible. Another thing you need to understand too is that we are influenced by our emotions and if someone got a bad day, they will reflect that state to whoever he/she gets in contact. The same can be said if someone got an awesome day.

Debates were made to see who agrees with our ideas and who doesn't. Of course, some people will overreact /letting themselves be influenced by their feelings/ and began to say bad things. If other posters get offended by it, then the debate is eradicated and start the nonsense fights that bring nothing good.